How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 05:24
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Do you regret being married to your current wife?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What melts your heart every time without fail?
Making more friends is a goal.
That's it for today.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Can a Trump supporter explain what was wrong with what Bishop Budde said to Donald Trump?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What I need from you?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Ask yourself:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Does not procrastinate.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.